I finished my social studies term on Friday, slept 14 hours on Saturday(!), and am enjoying the start of subbing. It also means that I finally have some time to read again and I am currently working on Picking Flowers on Dusty Roads by Oddny Gumaer from Partners Relief & Development (www.partnersworld.ca). I really appreciate her honesty and her perspective of the world (specially as the organization works in Burma). Here is a portion from "What Piece of Lego is an Ion?":
"A while ago our team at Partners had a staff team-building day. Don't ask me why, but we decided to talk about what we were afraid of. As we sat in a circle talking about fears of lizards, divorce, and flying, I thought about my fears. I realized that I was afraid of so many things that it would take very long to list them all. Besides that, I didn't think it would be very constructive for the rest of the team to hear about all the ridiculous phobias I have. What struck me, however, was that all my fears could be narrowed down to two categories: fear of failing and fear of losing control. After I thought about it for a while, I decided that is probably why most of us do (or don't do) the things we do. . .People do all kinds of crazy things that actually hurt others or that hurt themselves; it stops them from living their dreams and from loving another person; it puts people on their butts instead of on a mission to rescue the princess, the prince, the dog, or whatever. All because of two silly fears: fear of losing control and fear of failing." (p. 183)
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